Buying a Home From a Family Member in Florida
Buying from a family member Florida lenders call non-arm's length. It unlocks a gift of equity, and it invites scrutiny most families do not expect.
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Buying from a family member Florida lenders treat as a non-arm's length sale, and they underwrite it differently.
It unlocks something valuable and it invites scrutiny. Both deserve understanding before you agree a price.
What non-arm's length means
The buyer and seller have a relationship beyond the transaction.
Lenders call this an identity of interest.
They assume the price may not reflect true market value, because often it does not.
So the file gets checked more carefully than an ordinary purchase.
The gift of equity
A relative can sell below market value and gift you the difference.
The appraisal establishes market value and the contract shows the agreed price.
That gap becomes your down payment with no money changing hands.
It is the most useful thing about a family purchase.
How it gets documented
You still need a gift letter, stating an equity amount rather than a cash sum.
The closing statement shows the gift as a credit to you.
The relationship must be disclosed clearly to the lender.
See our guide to gift funds.
FHA restricts these purchases
An identity-of-interest sale is generally limited to 85% of value on FHA.
Exceptions exist, and a family member buying a relative's principal residence is one of them.
Another covers a tenant who has occupied the property for a defined period.
Confirm which exception applies before assuming the low down payment is available.
The appraisal carries more weight
The lender lends against appraised value, not against your family agreement.
A generous price does not create value that an appraiser will support.
Expect the appraisal to be reviewed carefully.
See our guide to a low appraisal.
No side agreements
Everything of value must appear on the closing statement.
A private arrangement to repay part of the price later is fraud.
So is an undisclosed credit for furniture or repairs.
If it is part of the deal, it belongs in the contract.
The seller staying on afterwards
A parent selling to a child and continuing to live there gets examined closely.
Underwriters ask whether this is genuinely your principal residence.
It is allowed, but the occupancy story has to hold together.
Say what is actually happening rather than shaping it to fit.
Their mortgage gets paid off
A sale triggers the due-on-sale clause, so the existing loan is repaid at closing.
Get a written payoff figure early, since it changes monthly.
If they have a very low rate, consider whether an assumption serves better.
See our guide to FHA loan assumption.
Use a title company anyway
Families skip this to save money and it goes wrong more often than you would think.
A search finds liens, judgments and unpaid taxes nobody mentioned.
Undisclosed heirs and old estate issues surface in family properties particularly.
See our guide to title insurance in Florida.
The cost basis question
Property you inherit generally receives a stepped-up basis at the date of death.
Property bought or gifted during someone's lifetime generally carries their original basis over to you.
That difference can be worth a great deal in capital gains tax later.
Speak to a tax professional before choosing between buying now and inheriting later.
Gift tax on the equity
A below-market sale is treated as a gift of the difference.
Above the annual exclusion, the giver may need to file a return.
Filing is not the same as owing, because of the lifetime exemption.
Again, the seller should confirm their own position with a professional.
The homestead consequences
Your relative's accumulated Save Our Homes benefit does not transfer to you.
The property gets reassessed at market value after the sale.
Their capped assessment may have been decades in the making.
Ask the county property appraiser what the new bill will look like.
If a spouse or minor child is involved
Florida restricts how a homestead can be conveyed where a spouse survives.
A non-owner spouse generally must join in the deed and the mortgage.
This catches families who assumed one name on the title settled it.
See our guide to how to hold title in Florida.
Agree the price before the appraisal
Families often agree a number and then discover the appraisal disagrees.
Decide in advance what happens if the value comes in below the price.
A gift of equity absorbs a great deal of that risk.
Having the conversation early avoids a difficult one later.
Put it in a real contract
A standard purchase contract protects both sides and satisfies the lender.
Handshake terms cannot be underwritten and cannot be enforced.
Include the inspection period and the financing contingency as normal.
Being family is a reason for more clarity, not less.
Renting from them first
A relative who has been your landlord may open an exception the ordinary rules do not.
Documented rent payments over a defined period can support it.
Cancelled cheques or bank transfers matching a written lease are the evidence.
Tell your lender about the tenancy early, since it can change the down payment required.
Where to start
Agree whether there will be a gift of equity, and how much.
HUD publishes the programme rules on its FHA resource pages.
Then bring us the numbers and we will structure it correctly. Start with a pre-approval.